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What if you could soften into your body and remember what it feels like to be fully, deliciously, and pleasurably alive?
Imagine this:
The first sip of a perfectly crafted warm drink on your lips, a plush cushion under your thighs, soft music humming through the room.
Your shoulders drop.
Your breath deepens.
And for the first time in a long time, you feel held.
You feel like you're truly here.
You feel like you.
Now invite it to sink in:
You feel a tingling aliveness on a cellular level.
Your body buzzes with subtle electricity. You walk differently. You eat slowly.
You writhe on the dance floor, completely lost in the music without a single thought of am I doing this right?
You delight in your own presence.
And when things get hard (because they still will), you have practices that carry you.
You know that you have you.
You become the kind of woman who turns ordinary life into art. Into joy. Into moments of transformative pleasure and play.
You laugh easier. You say yes only when you mean it. You wear clothes that feel so damn good on your skin.
You touch your own arm and feel something shift inside. You remember that life isn’t something to survive or get through. It’s something to savor.
Your life is beautiful on paper.
You’re always holding it down. For work. For family. For everyone else. You’re the capable one. The wise one. The strong one.
And beneath the polish? You’re so tired.
You’re an expert at giving, striving, and managing. You’ve read the books, tried the routines, and done the inner work. And yet...something still feels missing.
You’re doing so much and still wondering...is this it? Why does it still feel so hard?
Your body aches for tenderness. Your sensuality gets buried or feels distant, or like a language you keep on forgetting.
You don’t need another productivity hack. You need a pause.
You need a safe, sacred space to come home to yourself. To remember what it feels like to be alive in your body.
Imagine this:
You wake up and stretch, and your body hums with quiet joy.
You feel like there’s room inside you again. You take a bite of food and actually taste it.
You walk with ease and take up space like you belong (because you do). You cry when you need to. You laugh without holding back.
You're seduced by your reflection. You say no without guilt and yes without hesitation. You stop waiting for permission.
And when life inevitably gets hard again, you know how to return to yourself—gently, consistently, pleasurably.
Pleasure Expansion Day
A Sensory, Soul-Stirring Invitation to Live Turned On by Life
You're ready to shift your pleasure paradigm, tap into beauty, devotion to your sensual body, and the magic of being deeply held.
This is a full-day in-person immersion into the wisdom of your body, designed to ignite your aliveness and root it into your everyday life.
✴ 5–6 hour deep, curated experience
✴ Arrive to a welcoming, sensory-rich space designed to soothe your system
✴ 90-minute morning session to ground into your desires + expand into what’s possible
✴ Nourishing, comforting, and delicious lunch together—time to reflect, savor, and enjoy
✴ 90-minute afternoon integration session to distill your insights + set gentle next steps
✴ Tailored practices and follow-up support aligned with your lifestyle
✴ Every part is designed around your rhythm, your pace, and your pleasure priorities
Investment: $1600
In our time together we will:
✴ Slow down and soften the noise of the outside world
✴ Tap into your 5 senses to activate your desires and your sensual self
✴ Reconnect with your body’s innate wisdom
✴ Practice simple, sensual rituals that fit seamlessly into your real-life
✴ Expand your capacity to receive—attention, care, pleasure, support
You'll walk away with personalized tools that feel both doable and delicious.
We create a container where you don’t have to perform, fix, or hustle—and you can just be.
And from that place, we expand. With grace. With joy. With power.
This is an invitation to go from feeling stretched thin and disconnected to grounded, in touch with your turn-on, and vibrantly alive.
If you’re feeling the pull but want to start in a way that feels more bite-sized, join me for a 90-minute Embodied Pleasure Session.
This is for the one who’s been craving a reset—something simple, powerful, and deeply sensually supportive. This session is like a love note to your nervous system, a portal to softness, and a delicious reminder that you don’t have to do it all alone.
We’ll laser in on an area of stuckness or an area where you desire expansion and you’ll leave with practices you can bring into your everyday life — low-lift rituals that invite meaningful transformation.
✴ 90-minute session via Zoom call (in-person option if you are in the Santa Barbara area)
✴ Deep dive into one desire or challenge around pleasure
✴ Personalized follow-up steps to keep the magic flowing
Investment: $300
You’ll come into deeper contact with your sensuality in a way that feels spacious and accessible. Little shifts that make everything feel just a bit more delicious and doable.
After a single session one client shared:
I walked away from our session with significant new understandings about myself.
I discovered more about my relational desires and inner-most needs in relationships during our one hour than I have in an entire year of traditional talk-therapy! Truly Revelatory 🙏
This is for you if:
✔️ You’ve been stuck in overdrive and know something needs to shift.
✔️ You crave deeper connection—with your body, your emotions, your joy.
✔️ You’re healing from burnout, self-abandonment, or pushing through.
✔️ You’ve checked all the boxes and still feel like something’s missing.
✔️ You secretly worry your softness has been swallowed by survival.
✔️ You’re craving space to breathe, to receive, and to reconnect with your sensual self.
✔️ You want to feel alive—not just efficiently functional.
✔️ You’re curious about what pleasure could look like outside of sex, outside of performance.
✔️ You’re longing to be guided you back to yourself—gently, powerfully, with so much care.
This isn't a good fit if:
❌ You’re currently in crisis and don’t yet have support in place (I highly recommend therapy as your first step).
❌ You’re looking for a one-size-fits-all approach to experiencing more pleasure.
❌ You want a linear, high-structure program with strict outcomes.
❌ You’re not open to exploring your body, emotions, and inner landscape with curiosity and care.
❌ You’re not interested in exploring slowness, softness, or being witnessed in your transformation.
❌ You’re looking for a quick fix or surface-level self-care.
A recovering overachiever. A sensitive badass. A closet romantic. A secret sensualist.
...You are my people (and I can't wait to work with you!)
You’re someone who wants to feel safe and lit up. Who knows their body is wise, even if you’ve been too busy or disconnected to hear its messages clearly.
You’re ready to come home.
This isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about finally being you, with tenderness and power and presence.
It’s about unfurling. Gently. Deliciously. One breath, sensation, and moment at a time.
If you are...
What happens when you shift your relationship to pleasure?
Its not just poetic—it’s practical and really freaking potent.
You might find yourself…
✴ Reaching for your body oil not out of habit, but because you want to savor how it smooths onto your skin
✴ Speaking a boundary in real-time to your partner—with clarity and love
✴ Crying in the car and not making it mean anything, just letting it move through you
✴ Having sex, fully present, and feeling delicious sensations in your body you didn’t know were possible
✴ Whipping up breakfast and catching the golden light hitting your counter and pausing—really pausing—to soak it in
You’ll notice the way your hips sway a little more freely walking down the street.
You’ll text your friends that you love them, just because your heart is that open.
You’ll hear your inner voice say, “We’re good, love. We’re doing such an amazing job. We’ve got this.” and you’ll believe it.
It’s subtle and seismic. A total reclamation of your aliveness.
Activating pleasure doesn’t mean everything is easy all the time—
but it does mean you meet life with more softness, more resilience, and more capacity to feel it all.
This is the kind of transformation that ripples out—to your relationships, your creativity, your work, your rest.
Because when you choose to tend to your own aliveness, you change everything.
You won’t feel like you’re bracing yourself to make it through to the next and “better” thing.
You won’t be fighting the persistent pull to escape your life. You’ll find yourself more in it.
Embodied. Available. Turned on to the subtleties. More resourced in the hard moments. More celebratory in the sweet ones.
You’ll remember how to walk through the world with the deep knowledge that pleasure is your birthright— because it is.
What to Expect (FAQ)
Q: What if I’ve never done anything like this before?
A: Perfect. Come as you are. You don’t need experience with sensuality or somatic work—I’ll guide you with gentleness and clarity every step of the way.
Q: Do I need to bring or wear anything special?
A: For in-person VIP days, wear something comfortable and sensual—whatever makes you feel most like you. I’ll send you a little prep guide. For virtual sessions, create a cozy space where you can drop in without interruption.
Q: Where does our Pleasure Expansion Day take place?
A: You’re welcome to come to me in Santa Barbara. If you’d rather have me come to you or meet somewhere else magical, I’m happy to do that if it lines up with my travel schedule — you’ll just need to cover my travel expenses.
Wherever we meet, I’ll make sure it’s spacious, intentional, and designed for you comfort.
Q: Will you touch me?
A: It's completely up to you. At the beginning of the day, we’ll set a clear, supportive container and check in about what feels nourishing and aligned.
Throughout the day, I’ll gently invite you into deeper connection with yourself through movement, breath, sound, and presence. If it feels supportive, I may offer non-sexual, nurturing touch—but only ever with your full consent and comfort.
This is about you coming home to your body and your senses—not being performed on, but feeling fully supported as you expand into deeper intimacy with yourself.
Consent is everything here. You’ll have space to practice your yes, your no, and your maybe. No pressure, only invitation. We move at your pace, honoring what’s true for you, moment by moment.
Q: What if I cry? Or laugh? Or feel nothing at all?
A: All of that is welcome. Emotions are part of the process. Your body is wise and will guide you. Any sensation or lack thereof gets to be our portal in! You can’t do it wrong (I promise!).
Q: Do you offer payment plans?
A: For VIP days, yes. Reach out and we'll find something that feels good to both of us.
Q: I’m still not sure… can we talk first?
A: 100%. I’d love to connect and help you feel into whether this is right for you. Book a free Return to Pleasure Exploration call HERE.
What Makes This Pleasure Reclamation Work Different?
✴ Tailored to Your Unique Magic
You already have the dynamic roadmap to connect to your pleasure within you—my job is to help you unearth it. Together, we’ll move at a pace that works for you, tending to the parts of you that need attention and care.
✴ Radical Acceptance & Deep Listening
There’s no right or wrong way to show up here—what you bring is exactly where we start. Together, we’ll slow down the noise, untangle any blocks, and help you tune into your truth, so you can start making choices around your pleasure that feel deeply right.
✴ Live from Turn-On, Deep Trust, and Connection to What Lights You Up
Your turn-on isn’t just about attraction or sex—it’s your life force, your power, your magnetism, and it belongs to you. I’ll help you trust it, express it with confidence, and infuse it into your daily life—without pressure, fear, or second-guessing.
✴ Exploring Without Overthinking
Maybe you overanalyze and shut down what feels good before it even has a chance to build, or you’re questioning if you're good enough. We’ll make space for all your I’m-not-sures with a compassionate curiosity, so you can navigate expanding into pleasure with more ease.
I know this sounds amazing, but let’s be real—your brain might already be coming up with reasons why this won’t work for you. Let’s talk about them.
“I don’t have time for this.”
I get it—you’re holding a lot. But the truth is, tending to your pleasure isn’t just another thing on your to-do list. It’s the very thing that helps you show up more resourced for everything else. What if two hours of intentional pleasure could make the rest of your week feel easier, lighter, more you?
“I don’t even know what I want anymore.”
That’s okay. That’s actually where we begin. You don’t have to show up with clarity—you just have to show up. Together, we’ll listen to your body’s quiet cues and remember what lights you up. Desire doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful.
“Will this even work for me?”
This isn’t one-size-fits-all. Everything we do is tailored to your nervous system, your rhythms, your capacity. You’ll be supported in a way that feels honoring and attuned. And if you’ve never felt held like this before—that’s all the more reason to try.
“This feels indulgent.”
Here’s the truth: when you’re well-fed (emotionally, sensually, spiritually), your giving becomes more joyful, more generous, and more sustainable. So let’s reframe that. What if taking exquisite care of yourself wasn’t indulgent—but responsible? Revolutionary? Healing? You deserve pleasure not because you’ve earned it, but because you exist.
“I’ve done so much inner work already. What if this is just more of the same?”
First of all—of course you’ve done a lot of inner work. You’re the kind of person who shows up for yourself. You’ve journaled, processed, reflected, and maybe even sat in more healing circles than you can count.
But here’s the difference: This isn’t about more work. It’s about less effort, more embodiment.
You don’t have to think your way through another transformation. You get to feel your way in—gently, through your body, through pleasure, through deep listening.
This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about giving your nervous system the softness, slowness, and care it’s been craving—so the healing you’ve already done can actually land.
You’ve done the work. Let this be the part where you allow yourself to receive the reward.
Where you let your body catch up with your brilliant mind.
Where you stop managing and start savoring.
Where you stop holding it all and start being held.
And maybe for the first time... it gets to feel good.
Know that I’ve been there, too—
I know what it’s like to look like you’ve got it all together on the outside while feeling completely disconnected inside.
I’ve been the high achiever, the people-pleaser, the woman who thought pleasure was something you earned (if ever), something that was confined to sex, or something that was simply frivolous or just for vacation.
I've been the one who was excellent at suffering unnecessarily and calling it virtue.
But I chose a new path. One rooted in healing, embodiment, and deep, delicious connection with myself. I trained in the VITA™ Coaching Method (a 650-hour certification in love, sex, and relationships), but more importantly—I’m living this work.
I’m here to make it feel doable, nourishing, and wildly life-giving for you, too.
I want you to actually let yourself feel it -
A week from now, you're sitting at your kitchen table with your morning drink, and instead of scrolling, you're savoring. The light is softer. Your breath is deeper. You move more slowly—not because you’re trying to, but because your body remembers how.
A month from now, you’ve built a ritual that’s yours—maybe it’s dancing in your undies, or lighting a candle before dinner, or giving yourself three full minutes of breath and touch before bed. You’re connecting with your partner more honestly. You’re saying yes to things that matter and no to the ones that drain you.
You’re living like your life belongs to you again.
You feel consistently emotionally resourced and grounded. Sensually connected and awake in your body. Empowered to move through life with more ease and self-trust. Less reactive and more receptive. Proud of how you care for yourself.
Tapping into pleaure isn’t a reward you earn—it’s a way of being.
Your New Pleasure Story Starts Here
This isn’t just a session or a self-care day—it’s a deeply attuned, lovingly held reclamation. It’s a return to your body’s wisdom, wrapped in beauty, and infused with practical magic.
What makes this different is the intentionality. The devotion. The nuance. You’re not getting a cookie-cutter experience—you’re getting a deeply customized, co-created journey into the truth of what lights you up.
And its my joy to bring my whole self to this work—my training, my love for beauty, ritual, and cozy luxury. My lived experience as a Black, biracial, queer, neurodivergent woman who has done the work of coming home to her own body after years of disconnection.
It would be my honor to walk with you, gently and powerfully, back to yourself.
Ready to feel more alive, more connected, and more you?
This is your invitation to say yes to a new kind of nourishment—one that starts in your body and expands into every part of your life.